11 July 2008

How Is Everybody Doing?

Sorry for the long hiatus and thanks to everyone who emailed.  My health has been very poor and I may be looking at surgery in the future because of stomach problems.  The energy to blog just wasn't there.

The fingerprinting ended up not going very well.  For a facility where that is their only function, not only are they arrogant and arbitrary, they're incompetent.  We were notified that one of the girls had to come back because the fingerprints were not of sufficient quality for the FBI database.

Unbelievable?  Not really.

Allie may be forced to leave the country because U.S. immigration officials are questioning the legitimacy of the Guatemala native's adoption by her parents, Lori and Scott Mulvihill, in 1994.

1994?  Are you kidding me?  This girl has been living here as an American, with an American family, as their daughter, for 14 years and the government is so worried about her now that she may be deported?

The Mulvihills also say U.S. embassy officials in Guatemala interviewed the woman claiming to be her biological mother at the time of the adoption and did not raise any concerns. The embassy officials, however, did not conduct a blood test of the woman that would have definitely proven that the woman had given birth to Allie.

The Guatemalan government also never challenged the adoption, the Mulvihills said.

But U.S. immigration officials still aren't satisfied, and the dispute over her adoption has become a roadblock on Allie's path to citizenship. Neither Allie nor her parents have a way to track down her biological mother and the adoption agency used by the Mulvihills used to adopt their daughter has gone under.

The fact that she can not get her immigration status resolved means the fear of deportation continues to loom.

So, over 14 years later, the government can arbitrarily decide that what it did back then wasn't good enough.  Puts the phrase "Good enough for government work" in a new light, doesn't it?  I may need to re-think my stance on illegal immigration and amnesty because it doesn't seem we are isolated cases.  During our own efforts, I have not seen anyone I thought was trying to do something shady to stay here.  Just dozens and dozens of people trying to work through a broken system, some of them terrified of making the slightest error (as we were for the first appointment to get fingerprints).

"We're told to go in one direction and when we do, we're told to switch gears and go into another direction. And when we look for council from the government to give us a definite answer, we get stuck with people who are supposed to be working on marriage contracts rather than immigration contracts," he said.

And now that she is getting older, the consequences of Allie's immigration status are getting tougher. Her lack of citizenship means she cannot get her driver's license, vote, apply for a job or qualify for financial aid.

I know the feeling.  Our income tax situation will be screwed up for years to come because of this and may never get resolved for the past three years. 

Nobody can really understand the desperation the Mulvihills family feels, but I'm sure we come close.  If you have children, you can come close too.  Pretend you just got a letter from the government.  There is no contact information on the letter, no instructions.  The only thing the letter says is that you must send $3000.00 immediately or your children might be picked up and taken from you forever.  All your efforts to find out more are futile, so you send the money. 

Then, another letter comes.  This one says that everyone in your family must go to the next town over, stand on the corner of a certain intersection for exactly 190 minutes starting at 3:15am, and on your way home, you must drop off a money-order (no cash or checks please) for $171.38 at the Probate Court for "costs".  Or your children will be taken from you forever. 



That's how those of us navigating the immigration process feel.  Never knowing how much money the next step will cost, just that it's going to cost.  Never knowing why some of these things are "required" when they don't make sense.  Never knowing when someone will decide that what was good enough before is no longer acceptable.  Just knowing that you love your kids and you might lose them.

"All along I've really known that I'm not like everyone else," she said.

Is that what America is supposed to be about?  Have I been wrong all this time?

Posted by: Stashiu3 at 16:41:46 | Comments (11) | Add Comment
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1 This is immunity, power without accountability, and it is the most corrupting force there is. Do they really want to give these same Bozos even more power over our lives?

Posted by: Machinist at 11 July 2008@17:09:25 (4Jz8F)

2 No, our legal immigration system is a fucking mess.  America is still the best nation to ever exist, but there is always room for improvement, and this is one of those things in serious need of improvement.

Posted by: doubleplusundead at 11 July 2008@17:09:57 (YTk4M)

3 "Pretend you just got a letter from the government. There is no contact information on the letter, no instructions. The only thing the letter says is that you must send $3000.00 immediately or your children might be picked up and taken from you forever. All your efforts to find out more are futile, so you send the money."

This sounds like extortion, or maybe even racketeering, Sir. I wonder if there is someone who would like to look into the legal labyrinth involved in suing the government. I know it's very tricky but, jeeze. Have you inquired at Eject Land? (I can never remember the name of the project/experiment).

Posted by: sillyblindharper at 11 July 2008@17:34:48 (5+XEL)

4 This sounds like extortion, or maybe even racketeering, Sir.

No different than the IRS really.  Sad, isn't it?

Posted by: Stashiu3 at 11 July 2008@18:04:37 (Q5ggV)

5 Well, it isn't, Sir.  The IRS doesn't threaten to confiscate  your children.  

Posted by: sillyblindharper at 11 July 2008@18:17:03 (5+XEL)

6 In my outrage I forgot to say how happy I am to see you back, my friend.

Posted by: sillyblindharper at 11 July 2008@18:18:30 (5+XEL)

7 Well, it isn't, Sir.  The IRS doesn't threaten to confiscate  your children.

True... they just threaten to confiscate everything you need to support them, plus incarcerate you which confiscates you from them.  All through incomprehensible and seemingly arbitrary regulations to which the average person has little recourse.  Other than that, it's completely different. 

And thank you Gentle Lady, as always. 

Posted by: Stashiu3 at 11 July 2008@18:52:10 (Q5ggV)

8 Glad to see you put your head back above the ground.
Just a reminder that if things start to go too haywire, even the most idiotic leftie Congresscritter or Senator can be of great use in these situations. 
And hope the health thing improves rapidly, or at least without scapelous intervention.  Is your dad's situation back to normal?

Posted by: kishnevi at 11 July 2008@21:39:34 (xwgYX)

9 Like Harper (and everyone else I'm sure), I'm glad to see you back to blogging.

With the rest, sometimes it truly is amazing how incompetent people can be.

Posted by: Mari at 11 July 2008@21:44:31 (c6FmS)


Stash...I am saddened to hear about the difficulties you and your family continue to face. I have an idea, however meager, that may lead to something good coming out of this whole mess. It's a start and I am sure it can be improved upon. If you are up to it, make some sort of  "talking points" ouline. All of can use that info to email everybody that he/she can think of (congressnitwits, Senators, President Bush, etc.) and DEMAND that this situation be resolved , in your favor, in full immediately. This is only a starting point, but I know The Moron Nation can do it ! Let's put our heads together for Stash and his Family. He's our friend and deserves nothing less.

P.S. Feel free to email me and let me know what I can do to help.

Posted by: FishFearMe at 12 July 2008@09:32:50 (GkYyh)

11 Hang in there friend.  Email address changed. New one is in this posting.

Posted by: Faith+1 at 13 July 2008@13:11:20 (jTJVd)

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