15 May 2008

Great Advice

Someone gave me some great advice recently.  I've edited it a bit and am passing it back with my thanks, concern, and respect for the person who gave it and seems to be in need.

1.  Do more than take a break.  You need to really de-stress and not just go through the motions.  Take a deep breath.  Take a hot shower or drink some hot tea and honey.  Watch a funny movie with your kids/spouse and REALLY LAUGH.   Laugh a lot, even if you don't feel like it.  That's very important for you and for your kids, because they know when parents are stressed.  And if everything works out, it won't do your kids much good to have a sick parent.

2.  At some point, you will need to calmly explain all your concerns to your attorney(s) so, in the next days, you need to think about your concerns and write them down as succinctly as possibleFor instance, one point might be that you are concerned they are asking you for documents you provided at the first meeting because it suggests they are not careful with your documents and/or sufficiently familiar with your file.

3.  I think it's a good idea to stop blogging for awhile.  Your mind has other things to think about right now.  All bloggers blog in fits and starts and it will still be here when you're ready.

You are loved. 

Posted by: Stashiu3 at 12:26:34 | Comments (2) | Add Comment
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1 "...and it will still be here when you're ready."

And so will we!

Posted by: EW1(SG) at 15 May 2008@22:58:20 (YcNsA)

2 I haven't emailed her because I don't want to intrude, but she is more than welcome to email me if she likes.  She's a classy person and I hope her absence is a short one.

Posted by: Stashiu3 at 15 May 2008@23:03:31 (Q5ggV)

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